Do you have a cat and you kiss?
Does it often express its concern for you??
It will often jump on your lap to pamper you??
Will it run to the door to meet you when you return from work??
Or it will do some compulsory behavior to let you know that it loves you??
Perhaps not all cats are good at expressing their love for you in a straightforward manner.
Some cats, naturally shy, will still show you love in their own special way, only to ignore it if you are informed.
▍Subtle signs of affection
If you think your cat is the aloof type, watch out for these behaviors. If so, it means that it is not aloof, but you just need to find the eyes of love more.
These behaviors all include.
On your lap, rubbing its cheek
A slow wink at you
The tail is raised high and the upper part of the tail keeps shaking
Sitting near you
Yourself is stepping on milk, even if it’s not in your body
To bring you half dead“Prey”, such as mice and sparrows
Roll around and show you its belly
Some of these behaviors mentioned above you may have known their meaning before, and some you may not.
In any case, after finding these behaviors later, it shows that your cat loves you and that it is safe and comfortable to stay around you.
Then, at this point, you should also tell them in your own way that you love them too.
▍How to tell it you love it
There are some very simple ways to help you build a communication bridge with your cat in a short period of time.
These methods include.
Blink slowly at your cat
Spend at least ten minutes a day interacting with them with toys
Buy it a big enough comfortable cat litter
Buy him a sturdy, fun cat climbing frame
Give it a place to hide
If it likes to hug, hug it more every day
▍How you can make your cat more relatable
The first thing we have to admit is that loved ones cats, to a large extent, depends on genetics, very many excellent bloodlines, out of the kittens, born loved ones, and do not even need much socialization training.
Of course, it’s never advisable not to train, I’m just emphasizing the importance of pedigree.
However, one thing should be clear, it is not that a good-looking, standard-looking cat is a good pedigree, examine a cat’s pedigree, character is also a very important point, many new breeders, often overlook this point.
Cats, inAt more than 20 days, you can start socialization training
Then the cat grows up, it is not so loved ones if what to do?
How can I put aWhat about the “cat that doesn’t sit on the lap” and becomes a “cat that loves to sit on the lap”?
I have mapped out some simple ways for you to do this.
Increase its security: Big cats need more security, so give it a comfortable place where it can hide. With a sense of security, it is likely to slowly get closer to you. Instead of being wary of you.
You have to stay calm: when it does something wrong, you must restrain your emotions, do not vent, otherwise you two feelings may go further and further away, some cats are very vindictive.
Use positive reinforcement: give it good food and let it slowly approach you and feel good about you. You should not expect that it will soon sit on your lap. But over time, it will become more and more attached to you. This can all start with you sitting on the floor and interacting with it.
Quiet and gentle: once, it sits on your lap, don’t overdo it, don’t move, just let it all happen slowly. When it gets used to it, it’s not too late for you to start jerking off again. The key guidelines are“Be steady.”
Don’t do things that make it unpleasant at the same time: don’t do things like trimming your nails, feeding your medication, pulling out your ears, not on your lap, just on the table, on the floor, and don’t do them at the same time.
It all takes a little patience, so don’t rush, take your time, cats are a great friend to humans.